Archive for July, 2009

Reunions

Sunday, July 19th, 2009

Several times, my wife and I have been invited to attend the family reunions of our younger daughter’s in-laws.  We have not always been able to attend, and even when attending parts, we may have not been able to attend all of the events.

This past Friday night, we attended the cook-out that starts the reunion each year. The extended family and close friends are invited to attend this opening event.

What a joy it was to sit and watch a large family interact. Adults were greeting each other and catching up on what had happened in the lives of the family members.  Children were doing the things children do when they get together.  I saw small children running around in what appeared to me to be meaningless circles, but I am sure they had their reasons.  Older children were demonstrating their moves with a basketball or showing the latest dance moves.  The babies were passed from one lap to the next as older generations met the newest family members.  Some new members were introduced who had recently married into the family.

When the food was ready to be eaten, there was a blessing asked, and then a line was formed to start loading the food onto the plates.  There was so much grilled meat and delicious side dishes, that the deserts were hardly touched.

It is always a joy to spend time with the members of OUR extended family.  Everyone is cordial, courteous, and congenial.  We thank them all for making us a part of their family.

Wedding thoughts

Thursday, July 16th, 2009

This past weekend, we were at the wedding of a member of our extended family.  The small church was full of friends and family on both sides of the aisle.  After the minister lead the couple through their vows to each other, the minister then did something I have never seen in a wedding.  Both bride and groom came to the wedding with children, and the minister had the children stand in front of their parents.  The minister then lead first the groom and then the bride through vows to the children.

So often in marriages that blend families together, the children are at the wedding, but are not a part (except as flower children, ring bearers, etc.).  To have each parent vow to take care of the children brought to the family by the other parent was a unique and wonderful experience.  Another first for me was seeing the groom kiss the bride while holding their youngest child.

This was truly a family experience.

How much fun is too much?

Saturday, July 11th, 2009

We spent the 4th of July weekend visiting with our younger son and his family. It was a wonderful time visiting with our son and his wife while the 19 month old grandson was sleeping. The FUN occurred when the grandson was awake.

Watching that child chase the cats or crawl through the maize created by a couple of chairs was good for lots of laughs.  He and I played with one toy that created so much laughter that it is a wonder the Fun Police didn’t arrive to tell us we needed less laughter. I did not time the event, but my wife said we were laughing non-stop for about 30 minutes.

They say that laughter is good for your health. I think we greatly improved the health of four adults and one child during that visit.

Was that too much fun?